Good Monday Morning to this week 11 of 2019
Life lessons, something most of us are interested in, yet when we read them we wonder why they don’t sound too cool after all. Kris Gage threw a few into a blender, actually a text analyzer and here are a few that made it through my filter!
with the filter of “the Bible”
Treat others the way you want to be treated and live peacefully with those around you.
Go personally to the person who has done wrong toward you. Try to resolve the conflict individually. If that does not work, then take two or three other people with you to try to work out the problem.
Love worketh no ill to his neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.
What you sow, you reap, including the amazing thing called Grace!
with the filter “things”
Get the important things right. Marriage is really a beautiful thing. Being different is a good thing. Doing hard things gives you more pleasure. Don’t multi-task — focus on a few things and do them extremely well. Enjoy small things. Enjoy the little things. And again: smart people also do dumb things at times.
with the filter “time”
Take time to reflect. Give it a little bit more time before you quit. Invest in new experiences to “lengthen” time. Time is the most precious asset. Sometimes you get what you want by giving up the desire for it. Spend time with people you love. Stop wasting time. Value your time. You don’t have to be happy all the time.
with the filter “objective”
Numerous studies have proven our remarkable capacity for irrationality, and nobody is immune to our very human tendencies for bias. Everything you do and, by extension, everything you are, is filtered through everything you think, and everything you feel.
We can’t assume other people who think differently are wrong. We all have blind spots (including what we pursue). We all have things we chase as “the answer,” even though it usually isn’t.
with the filter “people”
Ignore what people think of you. If you’re a people pleaser, get over it. You don’t need to work long hours to impress people. Don’t blame people. People are in love with their voice. People want a distraction from their thoughts. Everything helps people distract themselves from their thoughts. Most people say “Yes” if you offer them something they already want. People are in our lives for a reason. You’re the average of the people you spend the most time. Work with great people. Spend time with people you love. Don’t trust the wrong people. Avoid negative people. Say goodbye to people. If people want to go, let them. Never get back at bad people. Treat people well.
Stop focusing on what differentiates you from others and start focusing on what connects you to others.
And the more someone is sure they’re “100% logical and objective,” the more likely it is that they are oblivious to their blind spot!
with the filter “working hard”
Don’t complain, don’t judge, reputation is everything, It’s all about who you know.
Always prepare, no matter how small your next assignment is, come prepared. It’s the difference between an amateur and a pro. Know your “stuff”.
with the filter of “perspective”
Don’t hold your convictions so tightly. You could learn something tomorrow that disproves them all .
with the filter of “growth”
Don’t let your life be ruled by the things you think you’re supposed to do or the expectations of others. All the opportunities for growth are beyond your comfort zone.
The moment you do something nice for someone expecting something in return is the moment you lost.
with the filter of “happiness”
Stop chasing after happiness. Come up with your own definition of happiness. (or listen to your mentor!) Never blame people for your unhappiness. Having a career you love is a privilege, not a right… it is up to you, and only you, to make it happen. Find your future; it won’t come looking for you. (God does at times come looking!)
with the filter of “life”
Life is messy but mostly okay as long as we work at it as far as we can. Don’t settle for a life that just feels ‘okay.’ Don’t get so used to feeling uncomfortable that you don’t believe in anything better. If you’re unhappy, change your life — don’t be complacent.
If you wake up every day angry, or depressed, or sad, and keep waiting for life to fix it for you, it’s never going to happen. There will always be lonely Sunday nights and exhausted Monday mornings. Enjoy the little things in life! Life is not easy.
with the filter of “success”
Success equals perseverance. Momentum is the byproduct of doing things repeatedly. If it is important to you, you will find a way. Focus, ask yourself what you like to do, what you’re willing to suffer for, and what problems you want to solve. Then, go out and do those things, suffer for those things, and solve those problems. You cannot be everywhere and have everything. Learn to make right choices and commit to things that matter most. Action trumps most everything else. People are split on “action vs. planning.
with the filter of ” life is a delicate balance between ‘ready, aim, fire”
There is no perfect moment to start. Do not wait for better moment. It will never come.
Later often means never. Life has already begun. There is no interlude. Nor is there trial version of life. Your every decision matters. You actually don’t have a lot of time. Don’t put things off. Momentum is a universal force… Every day you choose whether it will pull you further backwards or push you forward. Make sure you maximize the opportunity you are given and utilize momentum when good things start to happen… Perfection is the enemy of good.
If you wait to have all the details you think you need to make a decision, you will never make one. Rafael Sarandeses
Stop waiting for a “Sign”.
Courage is created through action.
Wishing you all a very blessed Monday Morning and week ahead!